find the love of your life

I’ve seen so many relationships succeed and fail over the years, but what bothers me is seeing how few succeed to the point of wanting to share a life with someone. Sharing a life with another human being is such a major undertaking, and it makes one wonder how people can do that with someone they’re not thrilled to be with. Yet, so many still do just that.

We listen to bad advice from family members or friends, who themselves are caught up in relationships which leave much lacking. We spend thousands of dollars in therapy, only to find it too esoteric, too focused on concepts and obsessing about the past, cutting us off at 50-minute intervals and leaving us frustrated. We spend too much money with “New-Age”-y type products to make us feel better in a quick fix, whether it’s energy crystals or hypnosis or whatever the latest trend of the month is.

It’s strange how we’ll look all over for answers, but we won’t look within ourselves and our partners to see if the love is real, and if it is, to really fix the underlying problems. Maybe therapy or balancing your chakra works for some people, but for the rest of us who go home thinking, “But what do I DO about the problem?”, here is a manual that will tell you in real-world terms what the underlying cause of your problem really may be, and more importantly, HOW to fix it and your entire relationship in the process.

Singles will get as much from this book as couples, and it’s very possible that after reading this, you will look at relationships (and yourself) in a whole new light, leading your next relationship to possibly being the most rewarding one you’ve ever had. I have spent hours trying to make all of the material in here accessible, not too heavy but still something that stops and makes you think, “Hmm…interesting…I never thought of it that way before.”

There are a lot of books out there about finding love, understanding men or understanding women, but what really shows you how to get the love you want and keep the love you find?

Everything you read in this book might not be easy to take in or accept. Some of it may simply upset you. Deal with it! Take it in. Keep reading. I know it’s difficult when we take a look at reality, when we take a cold, hard look at ourselves and the people around us and see things for what they are, rather than what we want them to be. Welcome to Grown-Up Life.

Put in some positive thinking in your relationship, and use my advice for relationships to find THE love of your life. Lasting love.

We have gone from a society of puritanical values to one where divorce and broken homes are the norm, where quickie weddings and quicker failed marriages are nothing new. The U.S. Census Bureau released a report in November of 2009 in which 26% of children under the age of 21 were approximated to be living with a single parent!

Most people these days know more unhappily married couples then those who are thrilled with their marriages. For those who speak to simply people in longer-term relationships who have been together for over a year, you typically hear more complaining than positive energy being shared. Saving a relationship seems to be water-cooler talk, as it's so common.

Enough. No more.

I am an analytical person who loves solving puzzles. I grasp patterns quickly and come up with “if ‘this’ happens, then ‘that’ follows” conclusions that I like to put through a battery of tests.

I have spent decades examining, noting, asking, questioning, theorizing, analyzing, and breaking down relationships with thousands of couples, both men and women, to see, amongst other things, the following:

· What is making it work so smoothly? What did it take to get to this level?

· As a successful couple, how do you handle situation ‘X’? How about situation ‘Y’?

· What went wrong? Why? When did it occur?

· Could it have been avoided? How?

· How was it handled? What was the resolution? What would have happened if
someone did something specific differently?

I’ve done a lot of the hard work for you already, as you‘ll read. Of course, great relationships, in particular the top 1%, do not simply happen with the snap of a finger, even if both parties have good relationship skills, which I will discuss later in the book.

First, one must have a solid foundation in place. Have you ever heard the saying that one cannot love another until they truly love themselves first? As selfish as you may have seen many to be, you would be surprised to learn that most people you see in day-to-day life do not truly love themselves, they are not good to themselves, and thus, they would not make great partners. How many times have you felt that everyone you meet appears to be so damaged, so chock-full of issues? Not just one or two pieces of baggage; we’re talking tri-state airport amount of carry-on here. Life is difficult, and those moments that seem to wound and sometimes even scar can never be taken back, but that is no excuse to not live life to the fullest and still go after and get the love that you deserve. I will help you.

Next, one must select the right partner, otherwise all the amount of self-actualization, self-esteem, relationship abilities, good fortune, charm, or voodoo in the world will be for nothing. Learning what makes a good partner and what makes a partner right for you takes time and experience. It involves understanding yourself, as well as your potential partners. This is not easy, as many go their whole lives without achieving it. Let’s see if we can get you ahead of the curve.
A positive romantic relationship can be one of the most satisfying, energizing, and strengthening experiences a person can have. An unhealthy romantic relationship, on the other hand, can be one of the most draining experiences, one which I am sure every one of you reading this book has experienced, likely more than once!

Those who know me well can vouch that I seem to be on a mission to help people with this part of life much more than I care about selling a few books. They are correct. If I saw you on the street visibly upset and you picked up on my perked ear, I would likely stop and talk to you about what is going on in your life for half an hour or so, and probably never mention that you should buy this book. That’s who I am, and that is how I am wired. As I write this, I have a peace in my heart that is usually only reserved for the rare few who get to truly experience the feeling of having everything feel ‘right’ when it comes to the person one is involved with. Not only have I made sure she knows how much I appreciate her, but I have told her that I truly want others to experience this feeling as well. In helping you achieve the love you’ve always wanted, you are helping me live up to my own words by reading this book to someone that means a lot to me.

Whatever you‘ve done in the past obviously is not working. There’s a saying that if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you will keep getting what you’ve always gotten. You already bought this book. Now do the hard work required, and implement some of the things you see written in it. Make the difference in your life that you want. You deserve it, and it’s about time that you start living it.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to help you.

D. Thrasher

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